And she said,
"Why did you do this to us?"
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| A Whole Lot of Nothing |
More common than we believe, women are more so misjudged and wrongfully accused of characteristics they have no affiliation with: If she gives her number too fast she's probably a slut, if she doesn't give her phone number she's a stuck up bitch, if she doesn't want to have sex she's faking, if she doesn't want to go out after the first date she's a gold digger, if she enjoys hanging around the house on most nights she's a goodie-two-shoes and if she's busy she's a liar; pick your poison. Most men if not all have said these things at a time or two in their lives. It's not a natural phase, just a misunderstanding of something many men haven't taken the time to learn about.
If she tries to speak, she's talking too much. When she tries to express her feelings, she's blowing it out of proportion. If she doesn't want to talk about it she's holding out, when she says she needs some space, she's seeing another man. If she has classes in the morning, she doesn't have time for me anymore. More poison to choose? No wonder why so many women hate our men's guts.
We here the typical male dialect about women, but is it true? We here how our men talk about women so badly, but what's the purpose? Men think they know woman, but we dont have any idea what's it like to be one. From the amount of time it takes to style up for a potential good date, to the occasional pain of a monthly menstrual cycle, to learning how to balance in high heels, there's nothing to hold back about it. Give these women credit! They have their share of problems to grip.
Face it men, we'll never be able to fully grasp the state of being. We'll never know what it's like to be hit on and followed everyday by huge and gruesome looking perverts, stalked by the geeky internet-boy next door, declined a promotion or lose a job because our boss wanted to flirt and be sexual but we declined and got fired, we'll never know how it feels to have to spend 3 hours preparing for a 45 minute luncheon, bleeding genitalia, we never wonder if the person were dating is planning to kidnap us, if the person were visiting is going to rape us, if the son a glitch standing behind us going to sexually harass us, dodging sexual predators and we'll never know what it's like to be stared at and treated as if were sex symbols when all we really want is someone to notice us for who we are. Most men have never experienced these things and have no idea what that could feel like after a while.
Think about love. How it can be happy, leaving you peaceful and chatty, uplifting you to levels you thought you'd never reach. Yet at the same time, heartbreaking - frightening, a scary & panicky ball all wrapped up into one tortilla shell. But even after all that heartache and pain, a handful of our women still love us, even though they hate us. They lay low for a while, recharge, and next thing you know there back at it again. Others may actually give up or seek interest in same sex partners.
So when you put all the pieces together; taking one final look at the picture, can we blame them? Why do you think women hate men so much? Are we men just totally innocent beings and they are antagonists who defy our existence? Is it because were always right and they're always wrong? Is it because we know everything, and we are superior to them? No However,
I hope to have some answer(s) for you by the time you finish reading this.
"So why do you think we hate you so much?" she asked me.
I took a huge gulp, knowing I had no other choice than to tell the truth.
"… Because... we made it that way."
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